(This preference is based on what would happen if you rebelled against them but based on songs)
Jim had gone on a wild goose chase to try and find a killer , he ignored you and threw himself into his work. You realised if you wanted to get his attention you would have to do something he hated. Commit a crime. He was in shock when he realised who was under the mask of his latest case , he promised to help you but you knew he was lying
Harvey was going out and getting drunk most nights and bringing back women for one night stands , this disgusted you so much you got back at him by bringing home criminals who pretended to be your date