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Stages of Attraction Male Viewpoint

Male Viewpoint Interest:

*Body goes still momentarily.

* Eyebrows rise quickly (micro gesture). 

* Maintained eye contact and then takes the rest of the body in. 

* Shifting to display one's chest and shoulders.

* Smiling and moving closer to engage. 

* Placing hands near one's pelvis or thumbs through belt loops etc.

Male viewpoint Flirting:

* Lingering eye contact.

* Making a sincere compliment. 

* Offering jokes and light banter.

*Asking questions that grow more personal.

* Smiling and whetting one's lips.

* Active listening.

* Watching the other person's lips when they are talking.

* Accidental touches.

* Touch excuses e.g. brushes her watch to ask her the time or brushes her hand to ask where she got the coffee from. 

* Leaning closer to directly say something in her ear.

Male Viewpoint Desire:

*Gaze explores and suggests.

* Active touches e.g. stroking the other person's arm etc.

* Direct eye contact.

* Lean in to whisper, lips brushing the other person's ear or skin.

* Anchoring hands on other person's waist. 

* Touching other person's wrists or neck gently or lightly. 

*Lips part partially.

* Increased swallowing.

* Erasing personal distance e.g. by taking the other person's hand and pulling them closer. 

Male Viewpoint Lust:

* Fumbling with clothing that feels restrictive.

* Heavy breathing, whispering one's desires, vocalised.

* Body to body contact, pulling the other person in. 

* Kisses that test, then deepen and grow more urgent.

* Physical arousal, stiffening and engorgement. 

* Hands and lips that explore curves, touch and squeeze.

* Hands carving through the other person's hair.

* Cupping the other person's neck.