Grandfather Inconsiderate

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Grandfather Inconsiderate

As my mother's condition worsened she had to wear a colostomy bag which could emit smell when on or changed. In the final days of my mother's life she stayed in the living room chair and she had to use a bedside commode, she was too weak to get up and walk to the bathroom. So given these factors of course there would be unpleasant smells but there is literally nothing my mom could do about it. Anyways one day my grandfather was in the adjacent front room when he cried out "pew, what stinks. Jeez that smells bad." If I was then who I am now I would have docked my grandfather. How dare you make your daughter dying of cancer feel bad for something again out of her control. Love is accepting the negatives, not insulting someone.

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